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Already Whole

In class we were given the assignment to make a Facebook Live video that had to be 5 minutes long. We could do the topic on any angle pertaining to what our blog is about. Alliyah chose to do a video topic called "Already Whole." In the video she talks about relationships and how women change themselves just to be who they think that man wants them to be.


We women should be more independent and not be so focused on the love of a man. Going into relationships looking to be a half, when we should go into it being already whole and complete, not needing another, just wanting. We need to already know our value and our worth before starting a new relationship. Going into a relationship with uncertainty, will just leave us vulnerable and dependent on the man. We are strong enough and smart enough to be our own selves not depending on anyone.


We dont need anyone telling us who we are, we need to have our own identity. We have enough problems with white America telling us how to be black and how black we can be, we dont need that from our own black men. It's time for us to stand up and stand tall and stop looking for someone to complete us when we're already whole.